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When you begin an estate plan you are trusting and asking a lot of a few people to implement your plan. Often that can be overwhelming trying to choose the person. But it can be even harder if you have limited family or family that is not appropriate for the decisions they would need to make. A few things to help consider your options:

First, consider the role you are asking them to take. Are they handling money? Taking care of the kids? Making medical decisions?

Would they make the same decisions you would make?

Are they mentally and emotionally capable of making those decisions?

Is their age or physical limitations of concern?

If they are only making decisions on one part of your plan, will they work well with the others making decisions for you?

If they are not local, will that cause problems? Would it be difficult to deal with real estate? Are they interacting with the court?

How will they interact with your family or the others involved? Will they communicate adequately? Will they handle problems fairly and diplomatically?

But what if you really don’t have the option of families or friend fulfilling this role? It is possible for an independent party to act for you as at least a trustee. Banks, financial companies, and even accountants may accept this role. Often in an estate plan, professional advice is required, so hiring a professional trustee may make sense. It also puts a neutral third party in the role of the decider and can prevent family disputes and complications. However, professional services of course cost money and may not be practical for all families. As such, it’s very important to discuss options with an estate planning attorney and make the right decision for you.

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A New Perspective to Estate Planning – Parenthood

My husband and I just welcomed our first child into the world on June 16th. As I was thinking of what to discuss this month, I thought I’d simply share how my new parenthood has made me reconsider our estate plan and the documents I create for my clients on a regular basis.

The first thing that occurred to me is how important a medical power of attorney really is. This was my first experience being hospitalized; while I did not have to use my power of attorney, it was extremely comforting to me to know my husband would be able to make medical decisions if I was unable.

It also made me re-evaluate our trust and trustees. We completed our trust years ago and with the birth of our first born, my husband and I have set aside some time to review our trust and make sure the decisions we made then still are applicable to our new family.

But the most important thing I have realized is how hard it is to choose a guardian. I have always helped my clients sort through the options and generally act as a third party perspective with objective reasons why someone may or may not be a good fit. Well, I now understand on a very personal level why it is so hard. It’s so difficult to find someone who will raise your child the way you want to raise him. Everyone we’ve considered has positive and negative characteristics and it’s so easy to rule someone out because they’re not perfect. As I’ve told my clients in the past, no one can replace them, they’re only able to choose the best option in the worst circumstance.

Parenthood has given me a new perspective and while I’m proud of that third party, objective view, I hope it’s given me an opportunity to better understand the families I work with and the difficult decisions they must face when forming an estate plan.

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Who Has the Power: Attorneys-in-Fact, Personal Representatives, Guardians, and Trustees

Estate planning can be complicated. In addition to different ways to structure a plan, multiple people can be involved. Most of the time, the people making decisions within the different documents are the same person. However, they don’t have to be. As such, it’s important to understand what the different positions and documents require.

Attorneys-in-Fact – This person can also be called an Agent, but it’s the person acting through a Power of Attorney. Their power either begins immediately or when a person is no longer able to make decisions for themselves. However, this power ends with the person creating the document (also known as the principal) dies. The attorney-in-fact can have many different responsibilities, but I generally divide it into two categories. The first being responsibility over the principal’s assets which remain in the principal’s name and legal decisions. The best example of this is generally making decisions over insurance policies or retirement accounts. They must use these assets for the principal’s benefits. The second category is medical decisions. The attorney-in-fact has the power of what treatments the principal should receive, may sign off on medical waivers, and will make the final decision on end of life treatment.

Personal Representative – Previously called an executor or executrix, this is the person acting under an individual’s will. When acting as a personal representative (or PR), that person will have to locate the will and deliver it to the probate court. They will then be responsible to the court to determine what assets must pass through probate with an inventory and accounting of those assets. The PR will have to determine what to do with assets, pay any creditor claims, and is responsible for all filings submitted to the court. At the end of the probate matter, the PR will also be the one who divides the estate to any beneficiaries.

Guardians – For many families, this is the most important role. This is specified in the will and is vital for determining who is responsible for minor or incompetent children. The court has the final decision on who a guardian will be, but a parent’s will and wishes are often respected.

Trustees – A trustee is the person responsible for enforcing the terms of the trust.   Essentially this means that when the principal is no longer able to make decisions (or chooses not to), the trustee will take control of any assets held in the trust’s name. At that point they will use the assets for the person who created the trust. When the principal passes, the trustee will be responsible for either distributing the remaining assets to the beneficiaries or managing the assets for the beneficiaries. This position can last for multiple years and generations.

All of these roles require a person to act in the best interests of the principal or the beneficiaries, but there can be very little oversight. A lot of responsibility and power comes with attorneys-in-fact, personal representatives, guardians, and trustees and there is definitely the ability to abuse the power. As such, it’s extremely important to choose the right person for each role and most importantly choose someone who can be trusted.

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Who Do You Trust? Choosing a Trustee

Happy Labor Day! What better to talk about on a day dedicated to the contributions of workers that have made this county great than the work that a trustee must do? If at this point you don’t know the difference between a will and a trust you should read July’s blog post.

Before going too in depth, I have to mention, a trust can be written in so many different ways that there’s no guaranteeing trustees will always have the same powers or the trust will always have the same provisions. As I write this, please realize a trust can come in several forms and I am only speaking in generalities.

Normally a trust is set up where the person creating the trust, the settlor or grantor, is also the trustee. While the settlor is alive and competent, they can continue using their assets like they normally would. It’s only when they can no longer make decisions or pass that they would stop controlling their assets.

This is when a successor trustee (named by the settlor) would take over. This means a successor trustee may control the trust assets at two different points and for the benefit of different people. The first time is when the settlor is still alive and the trustee must use the trust assets for the benefit of the settlor. This probably will include paying for medical bills, housing, and living expenses. It also will be the trustee’s responsibility to manage any current assets, including maintaining insurance on the belongings and keeping any property in good condition. Essentially, the trustee is the one responsible for making financial and legal (not necessarily medical) decisions for the settlor.

The other situation where the successor trustee takes over is when the settlor has passed. At this point, the terms of the trust cannot change. The trustee CANNOT change beneficiaries or change what the settlor has decided will happen. If the assets are to be distributed, the trustee may chose when to distribute assets and what to do with the possessions until then (again maintaining insurance, giving permission to use assets, etc).

The bigger responsibility is when the assets will be held in trust for a longer period. This is especially the case with minors. In this situation the trustee must decide how to spend the assets for the beneficiaries. They will have the discretion to use the money for college, food, housing, or even to withhold it. In this scenario, the trustee takes the place of the settlor in deciding how the money will be used. As such, it’s an extremely important decisions and must be placed with someone who the settlor trusts and who the settlor thinks will use the money in a way he or she would approve.

No matter why, when, or the time period, a trustee is ultimately in a position to control assets and make multiple administrative and financial decisions. Thus, when choosing a trustee, it’s extremely important to consider the prospect’s responsibility level, risk management abilities, financial abilities, and compare priorities.

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Have You Taken Care of Your Children?

Most of my clients contact me because they want to make their children’s lives easier.  Several call after they have lost a parent and dealt with the mess of someone who wasn’t prepared.  Often I hear the sentiment they never want to make their children go through what they’ve had to do.  So, with this in mind, I thought we’d talk about preparing for your kids, specifically minor kids.

There are two distinct areas of planning when you’re talking about your children and estate planning.  And they really apply to everyone with minor children.  First is guardianship.  If something happens to both parents, who will take care of the children?  Most people know maybe have even told someone.  But have they made it legal?  Having a conversation with a desired guardian or other friend is great and definitely recommended, but doesn’t mean your child will go to that person.  A will is the ONLY way to state your wishes for guardianship.  If you do not state your wishes there, the court will make that decision without your input, and most likely choose an older sibling.
So, now that you know how to legally choose a guardian, who should you choose?  There’s a long list of considerations and each person is going to have a different level of importance with each factor, but in my mind the first qualification is trust.  For instance, one of my best friends chose my husband Scott and me to be the guardian for her son.  Now, we’re about 500 miles away from her and her son, so we don’t get to see him that often and if we do end up being his guardian, he’ll be coming to us.  Honestly, not the perfect situation.  However, she doesn’t think her family will raise him with her values in mind.  She trusts us to make those decisions for him.  In addition, she trusts us to say no if it’s not the right decision at the time.

Hopefully, you’re in a position where several of those people come to mind.  No matter your initial thoughts, I would strongly recommend taking the time to fill out a Guardianship Worksheet.  You can find one at the end of this article.

The next consideration is financial.  Even if you don’t have enough to provide for your children for the rest of their lives, you’ll probably be leaving them something.  If you leave more than $10,000 to a minor without a custodian, the court will appoint one.  Again, this takes away your ability to choose who controls your children’s money.  Essentially, this means you don’t want to leave more than $10,000 directly to a minor.  However, if you give that money to another person without legally specifying it is for the benefit of the child, they have no legal obligation to use the money for the child.

If your estate passes through your will, you may add a provision giving a person control of your child’s assets (either called a conservator or a trustee).  However, if you want to avoid probate and plan to use beneficiary designations or other non-probate transfer (pay on death, transfer on death, etc) you cannot just list another person as the beneficiary and expect them to use it for the child.  The easiest way to avoid probate and to designate an adult to control the money is to set up a trust.  This person is called a trustee and must use the money for the child’s benefit.

As you consider choosing a conservator or trustee, keep in mind, this does not need to be the same person as the guardian.  Doing so will make the guardian’s life easier, but if your chosen guardian is not great with money or just needs some oversight, a separate trustee can provide that.  I’ve also seen parents who want to involve both sides of the family and will choose someone from the mother’s side for the guardian and someone from the father’s side for the trustee.  No matter the arrangement, having two different people as guardian and trustee make the
situation more complicated and the two people must be able to communicate well.  This structure should only be used after much consideration.

Finally, unless specified, a minor will be entitled to their money when they turn 18. Will your children be responsible enough to control their money at 18?  If you’re not sure, or doubt it, you can set up a trust (along with a will containing a trust) with specific ages or life stages (i.e. graduating college) when they can access their money.  A trust also allows additional controls on how the money can be used (school, cars, vacations, etc).

As you can probably tell, for most families with minor children, I recommend a will (stating guardianship) and a trust (controlling the assets).  It doesn’t take much, only $10,000, before naming a trustee has its benefits.  But no matter the documents used, whether will or trust, there’s a lot to be considered when planning for your children.  This gives you a place to start, but a lawyer will help you finish the process.

GuardianshipWorksheet

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